YES/NO Pillow
A relationship wellness tool that lets you share your mood without words
A simple service for couples to share their daily mood, physical and mental condition, and desired distance through a simple YES/NO format.
Inspired by the traditional Japanese YES/NO pillow - a wedding gift where couples flip the pillow to show 'YES' or 'NO' sides, communicating intentions without words. We've brought this thoughtful tradition into the digital age.
Do These Sound Familiar?
Common communication challenges in relationships
Hard to Say "No"
It feels awkward to directly say 'I'm tired' or 'I need some alone time.' But holding it in leads to stress and resentment later.
Mismatched Expectations
When only one partner expects something and ends up disappointed. If only we could know each other's feelings in advance.
Busy Schedules Clash
During hectic work periods, your partner might not notice. Too tired to explain, and the relationship gets tense.
YES/NO Pillow Solves This
Simple mechanism for a more comfortable relationship
Zero Awkwardness
It's okay to choose NO. Your partner sees 'Today didn't match up' - a gentle message without guilt or pressure to explain.
Prevent Misunderstandings
Check expectations beforehand to reduce one-sided hopes and disappointments. Understand 'Ah, they want to relax today' naturally.
Visualize Your Relationship
See patterns in your history - busy periods, relaxed times. Notice when 'We've both been stressed lately' before it becomes an issue.
Features
Simple yet powerful features to support your relationship
Pair Registration
Create a pair with your partner. Connect easily with a simple 6-digit pair code.
Daily Status Input
Register your mood with a simple YES/NO choice. Simple enough to make it a daily habit.
Match Detection
Only when both choose YES, it shows as a 'match'. Designed to avoid awkwardness even with NO.
Visualize History
From past records, you can intuitively understand each other's busy and relaxed periods.
How It Works in Daily Life
Practical ways to use YES/NO Pillow
Bedtime Routine
Check in before bed. Both YES? Natural flow. Mixed signals? Still caring with 'Good night, rest well.'
Long-Distance Connection
Even when apart, daily mood sharing keeps you connected. Feel their presence and support each other through busy days.
Dual-Career Couples
Subtly communicate work stress levels. Respect each other's pace and build a sustainable relationship without pressure.
Perfect For
A new communication tool for you and your partner
Busy couples who struggle to find time to talk
People who find it hard to say 'no'
Couples wanting to reduce misunderstandings
Long-distance relationships
New couples navigating boundaries
Anyone who values relationship history
Pricing
Start for free, upgrade when you need
Free
Basic features at no cost
- Pair registration (1 pair)
- YES/NO input & match detection
- Last 7 days history view
- Basic notifications
Pro
Deepen your relationship insights
- Full history access
- Extended status variations
- Anniversary & special effects
- Statistics & insights
- Customizable reminders
Frequently Asked Questions
Everything you need to know
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Make your relationship more comfortable